Sunday, May 27, 2012

I Say Tomato; You Say Tomahto. They Say Shinjuku; We Say Nakano!

Well, which is it?  Which Tokyo suburb are we really in?  Interestingly, the mission home and mission office are in the city limits of Shinjuku, while the chapel next door and our apartment (which is 150 steps away--I've counted them!) are in the city limits of Nakano!  Although this can be confusing at times, it does give us double the opportunity of putting out garbage and recyclables on their appropriate days!

Where shall I start?  Well, chronologically speaking, I should introduce you to 
Elder and Sister Hobbs whom we replaced in mid-March!
They are from Salmon, ID, and have 8 children and over 30 grandchildren.  The locals here got a kick out of the size difference between Elder G and 6'3" Elder Hobbs!  They were great trainers and really paved the way for us to do our work here in the mission office.  

Before they left we had them and President and Sister Albrecht over for lunch.  
Surprisingly all six of us fit around the table!

Here is the entrance to our office.


My desk is just inside the office entry, where I get to visit with everyone who comes in the door--whether it be mailmen, delivery persons, or numerous missionaries coming and going every day.  The good part is that there is always a jar of candy sitting on the counter right next to the flowers.  The bad part is that there is always a jar of candy sitting on the counter right next to the flowers!  The President purchases lots of candy at one of the seven Costcos in Tokyo, and I am to replenish the candy jar daily!















Elder Galbraith, however, gets his own office, removed from the flow of traffic but still in the presence of all activities that go on daily in the big room.  Although the President has a separate office, too, he only uses it for interviews and meetings with his Assistants.  He works mostly from his home office.

Inside the office we interact daily with five different Elders.  Three of them are Assistants to the President (Cooper, Andrus, and Brown).  The reason for three is that right now there would be an odd number of Elders out in the field, so the President has three in the office until the next transfer changes the odds.  In addition, there are two Japanese Elders--the Recorder (Elder Eguchi, who handles all the recording of baptisms and other membership data, as well as the monthly mission newsletter, a veritable digital masterpiece, if you ask me!) and the Commissarian, Elder Nakamura, who continually orders new supplies for the mission as well as finds and furnishes new apartments as needed.

These youthful five definitely keep us feeling young--and, perhaps, sometimes older--than we really are!  What a handsome bunch they all are!  It will really be hard to see them leave the office when it is time for others to replace them, which is a "given."  The President makes sure all Elders in the office have at least one final transfer out in the field doing actual proselyting, etc., before they return home from their mission.  Elder Brown at the far right has a great-aunt in Midway, Sherry Oman (who is actually in our ward)!  
Is the world small or what!!!

The mission home and chapel were actually here in the 60's when President Albrecht was a missionary!  He actually boarded in the very room where Elder G and I teach the English Gospel Doctrine class.  


This garden with the Japanese maple tree and stone lantern is just off the mission home dining room.  The full-length windows in the mission home really make for a pleasant view.  The camellia bush below bloomed a little throughout the winter, and then by spring the whole bush was in bloom!  

All our missionary pictures were staged in front of this beautiful bush!

This favorite flower is a camelia.


Our church was the first one built in Japan.

The azaleas in front of the church were just awesome!

Well, from here, I should take you on a tour of our sweeeet apartment!  


We are on the 2nd floor, and those are our two balconies that you see.  The one on the right is off our bedroom, which is also where all our laundry is hung out to dry.  There is a clothesline as well as a pole (which is too high for me to reach).  The balcony on the left is off the living room and also houses our stacked washer and dryer.  It's weird that it's outside, but it is covered, so I guess it's fine.  Most Japanese do not own dryers; in fact, ours had to be replaced, and our Commissarian had to place an order for a new one.  (They are not stocked in appliance stores!)  Unlike America, they are much more expensive than washing machines.  Only senior couples have dryers; the young missionaries are not given this luxury.  Thanks, President!

What is so funny is that the first day we saw the 405 sq. ft. apartment--back in December when the Hobbs were still living there--we thought to ourselves, "Oh, how small!"  Little did we realize that when we moved to Fussa, our apartment there would be even smaller at 378 sq. ft.!  (Remember the bedroom in which I had to turn sideways in order to get around to my side of the bed?)  Anyway, moving here in March made us feel like millionaires!   Why this apartment even has an office!  We totally love it!  Here is Elder G standing with the entry/shoe porch (genkan) behind him and the entire kitchen and most of the living room in front of him!


I'm at the "bedroom end" of the living room, holding a very handy, yet powerful vacuum.  And the cord is one of those retractable ones that can give you a whiplash if you don't get out of the way! The Japanese surely know how to put power and ingenuity into small things, I'm convinced!  (You can see our stacked washer & dryer behind me on our covered balcony.)




What you see is what you get when it comes to kitchen counter space!  That's totally all there is!  It is no bigger than the one in the Fussa apartment; however, I do have a lot more cupboard space to the right.

Also, as I mentioned, we do have a great office, where we spend most of our at-home hours on the computer.  The other end of the office has plenty of cupboards, which Elder G uses as his "closet" and which also hold all our linen and candy stash for English class.


The office also doubles somewhat as my extended kitchen as you can see by my 12"x12" microwave / convection oven, my 1980's crock pot, and the most-important-of-all-Japanese-appliances,
the rice cooker!



   Our shower is really the only complaint we have about our apartment.  Actually, it is rather a big room.  But then when you find out that you can't brush your teeth or shave without the water running over your feet, you begin to wonder "What's up?"  You see, both the sink and the tub drain right onto the floor!  That is why there is a little platform there to stand on.  Since there is running water on the floor, there is no electrical outlet in this room.  Hence, if Elder G were to use an electric shaver, he would have to do so in the kitchen, which is exactly where we both brush our teeth!  I tried keeping toothbrushes, hairbrush & comb, etc., in the shower room for about two days until I realized that they get soaking wet from the shower overhead! Just totally weird!  (I had wondered why the Hobbs left one kitchen drawer empty when they left, but I guess they forgot to tell us that that was where they kept their bathroom supplies!)


So, we have this big room that we do nothing but shower and shave in; and then in contrast, we have this teeny tiny commode that makes an airline toilet seem spacious!  I'm sure anyone over 6' tall has knees hitting the wall in front of them!  But if this is all we have to complain about, 
I would say we're in pretty good shape, wouldn't you?


 Each morning I arise at 5:20 so I can head out the door to do my "morning routine."  This consists of walking almost a mile to a nearby large park with a very nice paved walking path.  I'm there before 6 a.m., and so are numerous middle-schoolers practicing baseball with their coach--even when school was out for the year-end break in March-April!  Baseball is very popular here in Japan.




After one lap around the park (1500 meters), I am met by a 72-year-old ward member, Sister Kodama.  She speaks about as much English as I do Japanese, so sometimes we are able to understand each other, and other times we just laugh-off our not understanding each other!  She and I do another lap around the park and then head back towards home and a smaller park where a group of about 25 people meet every morning of the week to exercise for 30 minutes.  Everyone is spread out across the park, not like our aerobics, where all the women are a yard apart!


The lady at the far right leads the group, counting to 40 for each of the exercises we do--all of which are the same ones in the same order every day.  Most of the time that means doing 20 "reps," but some of the time it means 40.  I have come to the conclusion that we move EVERY joint in our body.  At first I thought my toes were the only ones not getting a workout, but then I noticed how much my toes curl into my shoes in order to keep standing on one leg while we are doing all these one-legged balance things!  None of this is strenuous; however, I truly feel that moving my arms around for 30 minutes beats the possibility of getting what I've heard referred to as "relief society arms."  ha!



This is definitely one exercise I omit!  First of all, my knees would not allow it!  Secondly, if they did, I still couldn't squat and walk around the park flat footed like they do for 40 counts!!  

This last photo at the park is of my other Japanese friend, Junko.  I "inherited" her from the Hobbs.  I'm not sure how they originally met--probably at the park--but they were friends for their entire mission here.  Before they left, they introduced me to her, and now she has "adopted" me as her gaijin friend.  She, on the other hand, does know a little more English than I do Japanese; we still struggle to communicate, but we also manage to have a great time together.  (She can even sing "Singing in the Rain" in English, which I can't do!)  She has run 40 marathons (one in NYC in 3 hours 40 minutes); and at 75 years old, she can still outdo anyone at the park!  She has given me two exercise shirts (I think she was embarrassed to see me in the same one all the time) and lots of Japanese treats.  She plays the shamisen, the Japanese musical instrument that looks similar to a banjo with a three-foot neck, but that's another blog!  She continually confirms with me that I'm not going back to America for at least a year!  She's truly a sweetheart, 
and I treasure our friendship!  

We live in quite a nice neighborhood, one block off a very busy street.  There is a mixture of apartments and homes.  I can't resist starting with this first apartment building that must have been built for anorexic people!  I still can't figure this one out!  Each door has a mailbox slot, so there are definitely four units there!


 I think their architecture is pretty much straight lines without much attention to attractiveness.  Their old homes in the country have a lot of character, but their newer ones in the city are pretty much just functional.





 I really like the next two as I feel they put a lot into their entrances.
Even as nice as these homes are, they do not have garages.





I couldn't resist this one just around the corner from us; I believe it's narrower than a single car garage!  If not, it's no wider than that!  Quite a mixture of both sizes and styles in our neighborhood!


 Believe it or not, this last shot of a dead-end, very short street ("driveway" in America) has six houses--two on each side and two at the back.  It is not uncommon at all to have homes 12" - 18" apart!


Before I leave the neighborhood, I must pay tribute to the clever and not-so-clever ways of parking.  I would really like to see the one below in operation!  I still can't figure out how it works!

 And the next two show how only one person can exit the car once it's pulled into its spot!  
(Remember, right-hand drive is how it's done in Japan!)

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I have one last note before leaving the "hood."  Garbage cans are not used here.  Instead, your garbage and/or your recyclables are set out on given days of the week in certain nets or plastic cartons, both of which are manually emptied by the garbage men.  Personally, garbage and recycle cans like we have at home
are much more attractive!


I would like to mention how one does shopping here.  The two nearest grocery stores I walk to are almost a mile either way.  And, of course, that means I carry my bags home with me, so I don't do a whole lot of shopping at one time.  But I'm getting ahead of myself.   Let's look at a few of the items in the stores.


Note the size of the green onions!  They are over 2 feet long and huge, like on steroids!  And I love the Campbell's soup labels!  The cost? About $2.50 per can! And cocoa is about $7.50!



But one of our favorite Japanese foods, Yaki tori (chicken on a stick) is still a great buy at 100 yen ($1.25)!

 I must explain how you go through the checkout line:  The checker unloads your basket of items as she scans them and puts them back into another basket on the counter.  You pay for your items and then take the newly filled basket over to a counter where YOU do the bagging.  I find this rather interesting!  Apparently, should you bring your own shopping bag, you receive a small discount
of a few yen at some stores.

Good ole Baskin & Robbins!  The 6" cakes below are $45 each!


Then there's always the Happy Meal with Japanese toys!

 President & Sister Albrecht took us to a store much like a Home Depot.  We couldn't get over the size of the lawnmowers!  No, these are definitely not toys!  The handles, however, did extend; but, dang, they are still awfully small!  But since almost no one has any lawn, I'm not sure why these even exist!


Likewise, these, too, are not toys.  They are pet buggies!  And if you saw how much Japanese pets are favored, dressed, and taken for walks as well as rides, you'd not be so surprised!

As I was saying, pets in Japan are totally spoiled!  What I first thought was a baby store is, 
in fact, a pet store with clothes, toys, dishes, etc.

I must include a picture of my getting a surprise Mothers' Day cake from Elder Willard of Roosevelt, UT.  He baked it in a rice cooker, and it was actually very good, kind of heavy like a pound cake.  Yummy!
  

These two handsome "brethren" treated us to a typical Japanese lunch after coming down from Church headquarters (PBO) in Tokyo to give Elder G some training on Church finances.


They shared an order of shabu shabu, which is an assortment of raw vegetables and bacon-thin meat.  Each person puts his selections into the boiling water in front of him (the center of the table is a glass stove); and then when it's cooked, he uses his chopsticks to remove the food, dip it in sauce, and then enjoy!

 Elder G went with an American favorite, tonkatsu, which is a fried pork cutlet served over rice.

And I had suki yaki--meat, vegetables, and noodles--brought to me on my own personal "grill!  It was a very enjoyable lunch, experiencing all three of these typical Japanese meals with new Japanese friends.


 One more note about eating:  I have to include last night's 45th anniversary dinner at Bubba Gumps.  We loved it so much the first time around that we returned, taking President Albrecht and his wife,
LeAnn, with us.  It was truly an enjoyable evening!




I'll wrap this post up with a cute note; i.e., pictures of CUTE JAPANESE KIDS.  
That's one thing we all agree on over here: Japanese toddlers are as cute as can be!







 









This last one is especially for Derek, Erin, and Emily in honor of our old pug, Thor!  And, no, the pictures with the kids doing the "peace sign" were not prompted by the photographer! 
It's just what you do if you're Japanese!!!

Friday, May 18, 2012

Elder Clarke Pays Us a Visit



Elder Clarke’s May 15, 2012, Japan Tokyo Mission Conference

Elder Don R. Clarke was sustained a member of the Second Quorum of the Seventy of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints on April 1, 2006, and a member of the First Quorum of the Seventy on April 2, 2011. He was serving as a member of the high council of the Buena Vista Virginia Stake prior to his call to the Seventy.  Elder Clarke earned an associate's degree from Ricks College and a bachelor’s degree in business from Brigham Young University. He completed a master’s degree in business administration from Washington State University. His career included senior executive positions in several retailing companies. Elder Clarke has served the Church in various capacities, including full-time missionary in the Argentina Mission, president of the Bolivia Santa Cruz Mission (2001-2004), stake president, assistant director of Church Hosting, high councilor, bishop, stake Young Men president, elders quorum president, and Area President of Central America (2007–2011). Don Ray Clarke was born in Rexburg, Idaho, on December 11, 1945. He married Mary Anne Jackson in 1970. They are the parents of six children.

Elder Clarke was in Tokyo to conduct a Mission Presidents' Seminar for all presidents in the North Asia District of the Church.  Although he wasn't scheduled to talk to missionaries, he strongly desired to do so and scheduled a conference.  We are so lucky to be the mission in the heart of Tokyo because it is our location that gives us such wonderful, spiritual opportunities--moreso than many other missions here in the Far East.  On Tuesday, May 15, all 170+ missionaries in the Japan Tokyo Mission met at the Temple Annex for an all-mission conference.  Below are the notes I took at this conference.

After Elder Clarke had shaken the hands of every missionary there, he had all the senior missionary couples come to the front of the chapel.  He then praised us for being there on our own volition and cost as opposed to the younger missionaries who “may have been sent there by their parents.”  He really gave us all a nice compliment and even insisted that we all hold our spouse's hand.  He then had President and Sister Albrecht come to the stand, where he had missionaries call out first President Albrecht’s attributes and good deeds; then he did likewise for Sister Albrecht.  It was very touching since their time here is getting very short—less than six weeks!  They also held hands and gave each other a loving kiss.  Elder Clarke pointed out how important it is for all of us to be close with our spouses.

He then quoted D&C 43:8-10, stating our purpose as missionaries is to instruct, edify, and to show people how to act, thus bringing glory to the Kingdom.  He told of his visit to Panama where he witnessed a young 13-year-old boy kneeling in prayer alone in a room before a stake conference had begun.  He asked him what he was praying for, and the boy told him it was to be able to feel the Spirit during the meeting.  A year later when he was in Panama to dedicate the temple, the same boy was there attending the dedication.  And today, this same young man is a missionary!  His point was that people do STAY active in the Church when they feel the Spirit, and there are thousands here in Japan who need to feel the Spirit!

He stated how Bishops and Stake Presidents do not wear name tags, but missionaries do!  Elder Clarke has served over 22 years in full-time service for the Church and would do anything just to be able to wear the missionary name tag again!  He urged us to take off our tags daily and "report to Him!"  Especially after a temple session, "report to Him before you
leave the Celestial room."

Alma 13:10-11 and D&C 30:19 both talk about DILIGENCE, not intelligence.  Diligence is ten times the worth of intelligence.  Diligence means EXCEPTIONAL action.  By being diligent, you can do anything you want.  Initially, when he was a young missionary at the MTC, he had difficulty with the language.  He then fasted weekly and worked harder and was ultimately blessed to learn the language well. 

D&C 12:8 says to be humble and to LOVE the people.  Nothing will work unless we love the people.  You can’t fake love.  He told of an Elder in Bolivia who hated the country, the food, the beds, etc., and wanted to go home.  President Clarke asked the missionary to stay for 40 days in hope of changing his mind; the Elder gave him two weeks!  Two weeks later he returned to report.  He still hated the country, the food, and the beds.  But he had found a family he loved, and he stayed and finished his mission.  In another story, he asked a Bolivian lady who had been to America what she saw as the difference between our two countries.  She said, “Here we live with our hearts; in America, you live with your minds.”  He spoke of his daughter who was an exceptional track star.  He said what made her great was that first, she ran with her heart; second, with her mind; and third, with her feet.  Learn how to move from your mind to your heart.

He urged all missionaries to be reading daily from PMG (Preach My Gospel).  Apply it!  Live it!  Be converted, and love everyone! “God talks to you when you read PMG
and will expand on what you study.”

Elder Clarke said it was necessary that missionaries have FUN (or joy) on their missions.  When he was a mission president in Bolivia, he told his missionaries they were allowed 5 minutes every transfer to be discouraged.  That’s all!  The rest of the time they were to be actively having fun talking to people wherever they went.  He admonished us, “Care more about the people than yourselves, and you will be happy."  He asked where all these people are on our “lists.”

He interviewed an Elder who, discussing his tennis playing, said it feels great to win.  Elder Clarke said it’s the same in missionary work—we all like to win!  So just like a hardworking athlete, make your missionary work a PASSION!  Love doing what you do!  Work hard to get it just right!  The number one business attribute of successful people is getting things done.  Eighty percent of the people have excuses; the rest have solutions.

“Be like Moses and 'have experiences’ with God.”  Get close enough to HIM that you feel personal revelation regarding what you are called to do.

When “FINDING,” follow D&C 61:3 and “don’t move swiftly upon the waters.”  In other words, when on an escalator, for example, don’t be walking up or down.  Just stay put and force the person ahead of or behind you to stay put as well.  Then you can begin a dialog with them!  Another "finding" suggestion was to use excuses:  for example, he said he was always “lost” in Bolivia; thus, he was always stopping people too busy to stop to talk, but polite enough to help a person who was lost.  He said it was a great tool to get a conversation going!

Also, for “finding,” get references from the BISHOP.  Pray for the Bishop by name every night.  Thank him!  Treat him well!  He is the one who holds the keys to missionary work in the ward.  He joked that it was worse to complain about the Bishop than it was to smoke!

Another “finding” source should be RETURNED MISSIONARIES in your ward.  Remind them of what they felt when on their missions.  Then they should be motivated or prompted by the Holy Ghost enough to provide references. 

Other ACTIVE MEMBERS in the ward should also be called upon for references.  D&C 123:12 says that ALL people will be taught the gospel.  Does it say “all but Buddhists”?  No.  “All but some other religion?”  No.  So, we have to believe it and work in faith that we are to reach out to ALL PEOPLE.  There was an Italian missionary in England (remember that the British don’t like Italians because of WWII).  When he got there, the average baptismal rate per missionary was 2-3 a year.  Despite being an Italian, Elder Ricciardi didn’t know he couldn’t do it, so he did it!  He baptized more than 100 people!  He feared no one, only God!

Decide that you can do whatever you want.  He told of a nonmember who played ball with Church members, and no one ever talked to him about the Gospel.  Later he got married and had 3 kids and still wondered about the Church, but no one ever looked him up.  Finally, one day he saw Elders on his street walking towards his house so he brought his family all together in the living room to be ready to hear their message.  They passed by his door and did not stop!  His family had been prepared, but the Elders were not listening to the Spirit.  Seven years later his wife was sick in the hospital and just happened to be under the care of a Church member, and there, the story finally has a happy ending.  In fact, the rest of the story is that he eventually became a Patriarch and his son, a Stake President!  But look what those Elders had passed up because they were not working under the influence of the Spirit!  “Those who join the Church will do so with or without us, but God lets us do it for ourselves.  It’s to be our blessing!”  We have to FIND with the SPIRIT!

Another way to “find,” as well as an example of missionaries who did finding with the Spirit was two missionaries on a bus in Bolivia, sitting apart so they could visit with people.  The junior companion who had just arrived and could not yet speak the language was seated next to a woman.  So he opened his Book of Mormon and pointed to a picture of Christ, saying, “Jesu Christo, Jesu Christo.”  Before he could say more, however, she was exiting at her stop.  He called out that they wanted to visit her, and she replied that she lived in the house with the red sign.  Later the Elders fasted and took the same bus ride.  They got off at her stop and started looking at the houses.  They did see a house with a red sign, but the young Elder said, “No, it doesn’t feel right.”  Again, they saw a house with a red sign, but he again said, “No, it still doesn’t feel right.”  The third time it did feel right, they entered the home, and they converted the whole family!  The BOOK OF MORMON is divine!  It has power!  Carry the book!  People will ask you about it.  It has more truth in it than any other book!  There are many people from all churches who aren’t yet coming to the true church because they don’t know where to find it. 

Elder Clarke would love to become a mission president again!  He said you will remember your mission for eternity.  It determines your marriage.  It determines your career.  Some of us will become less active, unfortunately.  So, “Don’t go through this mission without it going through you,” he urged.  It’s all about the heart.  It needs to be written in our hearts, not our feet!  He told of a Peruvian missionary, Elder Kunja, whose father predicted his son would last one month as a missionary.  When Elder Kunja was first meeting with an investigator, he couldn’t testify that John the Baptist actually restored the priesthood because he really didn’t know.  Later the Bishop’s wife called for the Elders to give her sick daughter a blessing because the Bishop was out of town.  Elder Kunja said he would do the anointing, but Elder Hollinger would have to do the sealing.  Senior Companion Hollinger told him, “No, you will give her the blessing.”  Twice during the blessing he was prompted to say the words “heal her,” and he finally responded after the third prompting, and she was healed.  Later, they were back at the first house where he had participated earlier but was halted by his doubt.  This time he told the family that not only did John the Baptist restore the Aaronic Priesthood, but Peter, James, and John also came to this earth to restore the Melchizedek Priesthood with its healing power!  Elder Kunja didn’t go home; and he eventually became Elder Clarke’s Assistant in the Mission Home!  

The conference was truly one of the best we have attended!  Elder Clarke was so personable and did most of his speaking with a lapel mike so he could be closer to all the missionaries.  We closed with the standard "Called To Serve" missionary hymn that always energizes us to magnify our callings!  It was a very inspirational day.